Head Well

Irritability & Low Frustration Tolerance

When Everything Feels Like Too Much

Irritability isn’t always about anger—it’s often a nervous system in distress. At Head Well, we recognize that persistent reactivity, low frustration tolerance, and emotional volatility are signs that something deeper needs support. Whether you’re snapping at loved ones, overwhelmed by small tasks, or constantly “on edge,” we’re here to help you reset, rewire, and regain control. 

Irritability & Low Frustration Tolerance Q&A

What Is Low Frustration Tolerance? 

Low frustration tolerance is a difficulty coping with stress, discomfort, or delays. It can show up as impatience, emotional outbursts, avoidance, or shutdown—and is often linked to anxiety, trauma, ADHD, or mood disorders. For many, it feels like you’re constantly at capacity, with no room for error or flexibility. 

These symptoms are not a personality flaw. They are a signal that your emotional bandwidth is maxed—and your system needs care, not criticism. 

 

Signs You Might Be Experiencing Low Frustration Tolerance 

  • Frequent irritability or snappiness 
  • Feeling easily overwhelmed by minor stressors 
  • Difficulty managing transitions or unexpected changes 
  • Emotional reactivity or outbursts 
  • Trouble focusing or completing tasks under pressure 
  • Avoidance, procrastination, or explosive frustration 
  • Tension in relationships due to emotional sensitivity 

 

Root Causes We Explore 

  • ADHD or executive dysfunction 
  • Unprocessed trauma or nervous system dysregulation 
  • Depression or anxiety 
  • Hormonal imbalances (PMS, PMDD, menopause) 
  • Sleep deprivation or chronic stress 
  • Perfectionism, shame, or burnout 

 

We look beyond the surface to understand your full story and tailor treatment accordingly. 

 

How We Treat Irritability & Emotional Reactivity 

At Head Well, we take a multi-dimensional approach to emotional regulation—one that acknowledges both your biology and your lived experience. 

  • Comprehensive Psychiatric Evaluation – Uncover underlying conditions contributing to emotional dysregulation 
  • Medication Support – For mood stabilization, attention regulation, and nervous system balance 
  • Somatic & Mind-Body Techniques – Grounding, breathwork, and nervous system reset tools 
  • Therapy & Coaching – Learn emotion regulation, impulse control, and self-compassion techniques 
  • Functional Testing – Identify nutrient, hormone, or sleep imbalances that impact mood 
  • Lifestyle Optimization – Strategies for resilience-building, boundaries, and nervous system repair 

 

A Regulated You Is a Powerful You 

You don’t have to stay stuck in survival mode. Emotional regulation is a skill—and with the right support, it’s one you can learn and embody. 

📞 Schedule your consultation today to explore what’s underneath the irritability 
📍 In-person and virtual appointments across Oregon